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I wonder how many people get married simply because society moves them in that direction. How many do it simply because it's "what you do", and how many give serious thought to the questions in here.
What is unity with another person?
How is marriage different from any other relationship?
How does/will marriage affect my relationship with this person.
I am a fan of cohabitational life commitment with a person you can create new life with. I believe it is the intended state of existence for humanity. Though my divorce initially left me cynical and bitter, I do believe in the power of commitment.
"Is this person right for me?" vs "This person will be right for me". The commitment creates love. I think a social marriage can create a degree of emotional support for a couple, but is not necessary for that couple to survive.
Still pondering it all. Would love to hear further thoughts.
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