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Originally posted by Jerr Conner:
Ah, but I still didn't choose to be attracted to men. Can you honestly say that you chose to be attracted to the opposite sex? I know a lot of straight people who can honestly say they didn't choose the attraction.
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I covered this at length in this thread. If you could please read and address this rather than introduce a covered point as though it was never raised that would be appreciated.
Yes I did choose my sexuality. I was not born lusting after women, getting hard ons or allowing myself to be aroused by females. These were behaviours I learned, allowed to develop and even now CHOOSE to entertain.
I also chose to resrict my desires once I got married.
Mind over matter.
If you honestly believe you did not choose your sexuality, you are either unaware of the power and control of the concious mind (and therefore may be unable to commit in any relationship that tests your decisions over desire); mentally deficient in terms of being a slave to your desires, or simply lying to make a point.
In short the "nature" argument doesn't wash.
Read my posts. [img]smile.gif[/img]
I await your reply.
Oh p.s. It's similar to the "male caught in a female" body.
Heads up - gender is a PHYSICAL delineation. Unless people who believe that are suggesting their is a SOUL and it has a GENDER.
We start the same sex in the womb.
We develop our sexuality through an intricate series of choices.
At least I did.