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Originally posted by Illumina Drathiran'ar:
Perhaps these women you were with hadn't themselves figured out their own identities. Perhaps they were experimenting with you. I can't speak for them because I don't know them.
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Exactly. You don't know them. They are both still with men. They had pretty strong self identity Illumina. Why not just face it. They were two homosexuals who became, and remain hetrosexual.
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As for the self-defined lesbian who is bisexual, I don't care about labels or what people claim they are. I'm talking about peoples' actual desires.
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And I am saying desires are irrelevent. It is what people DO with those desires that defines their sexuality. Do they entertain them? DO they develop and pursue them? DO they act on them?
Control of desire is a fundamental human necessity if one is to live with other humans, or survive through a winter.