[Cerek the Barbaric]

Originally posted by Grendal: Once again religion gets in the way again Cerek. And I have to side with Moiraine on the fertility thing. But not just fertility, what about those hetero couples that know b4 marrige that there wont be any kids in their future due to a choice of their own? Shouldn't that make them inelligable for a wedding as well? Marrige was never designed to "promote" anything. One more question for Sir Kenyth, are you gay? How would you know your not "born that way" You shouldnt try and make the rules when your not playing the game. Maybe Im looking at this wrong but to me a marrige has absolutely ZERO to do with a persons religion or political views. I believe that marrage is a pact between 2 ppl ( hetero, gay, lesbian)in which they promise to share their lives together, for better or worse, richer or poorer, kids or no kids. Its a union between 2 ppl that want to promise themselves to each other and try and make a go of survival at life together.

Exactly what does religion get in the way of, Grendal??

The question asked by Sir Kenyth was "What is your opinion of same-sex marriages?" I answered that question and gave my reasons for it. However, the fact that I disagree with the homosexual lifestyle does not mean I'm intolerant of it. In fact, I specifically listed an example of a gay couple I know personally and how they are bringing two children into the world. I don't completely agree with their decision, but I agreed that the two of them will make excellent and loving parents.

I recently had a long-time friend come to me and admit he was homosexual. He then said that he had always wanted to go on a "date" with me. Well, that was a bit awkward. I let him know that - while I may disagree with his lifestyle - I didn't think any less of him as a friend. When I saw him out in public later that same night, I still greeted him with a hug, just as I always had.

You see, Grendal - disapproval does not necessarily equate with intolerance. I can disapprove of an individuals choice or habits, but still respect their right to live their life they way they want to.