Ok, without sounding like some kind of NPC perv...
I have 'concluded' a romance with Aerie while having Jaheira in the party.

Aerie left the party, and now I am wondering if the romance with Jaheira can continue. I have finished the fight with Dermin, but have not yet had Terminstel (or whatever his name is) come and give her the amulet. Since the fight with Dermin, Jaheira hasn't said anything with the 'romantic' music in the background. I also just downloaded the ShadowKeeper program and looked at the global variable for JaheiraActiceRomance (got the idea from a prev post about an Anonem romance) and the variable WAS at 3 - which suggests the romance is over.
Soooo, if you romance one NPC, can you romance a second? I am wondering if the romance went to 3 because one time right when I was resting, Aerie decided to butt into the conversation to say she was leaving me at the EXACT time that a conversation had started to save Jaheira from the bandits that sneak up on the party while resting, so I never got to answer the "save Jaheira or save myself" bit. Any ideas on this? And if I go and reset the romance value to 2, can I continue on in the relationship? Or will it just mess things up? I haven't used any game editors before and don't wanna bugger up the game just for this...
Thanks!