[sageridder]

Insanity,all other fears are simply overcome by control and focus.Not in any way to say other fears are not real or truly terrorizing to
thier owners.But there are ways to overcome the others by facing them,therapy,hypnosis,ect.I do realize my perspective on this is skewed by personal experance.In high school a friend of mine who was an overachiever a real nervous type couldn't accept less then a high A in anything,snapped.A dean's list,ap,kinda guy just snapped,some of the pressure was parents but I think mostly internal.He became reduced in capasity to the degree of someone mentally challanged.Which in and of itself sucked but if he could be happy would have been liveable.But he had times of more lucid perspective in which he would express (won't go into detail here of how bad it was) his pain and how unfair it was being how he was now and how he had once been.In one of those moments he ended his life,I can only hope he is happy now.I walked away from it all with only good thing.An
understanding of just how important it is to smell the roses once and a while,and there is just nothing in life no job,situation,even realationship,that is worth putting yourself under pressure beyond that which you can endure.Oh well we all have our own demonds to contend with.