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JR Jansen - Well I guess it depends on how you look at it. I look at that kind of thing, i.e, wherein a girl dates two guys, who are aware that she is dating them both, and is supposed to eventually decide on one to pick, that THAT is a competition for the guys. They may be friends, but still it is a competition nevertheless. Depends on the friendship, some friendships may survive, and some may crumble because of who ends up the winner and/or the loser. Loser may have hard feelings which might affect their friendship in a negative way. Again, it all depends on the people, but still a definite possiblity.
Again, I agree that the woman should decide in that type of situation, and not take her time with that either. I just think that if a woman in that situation wouldn't choose one guy right off the bat, then that means she isn't sure at all, and who knows what she will choose, and/or how long that will last either, and is that worth risking a friendship for? Again, this is just a hypothetical scenario, not necessarily anywhere near pertaining to Willard's situation.
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