Reading all the replies I am reminded of one of the more serious scenes in Forest Gump... the one where Jenny is throwing rocks at her old house and unable to open herself up to Forest, or to let go of the pain and abuse that was her childhood.
"I guess sometimes there just aren't enough rocks" is a line that will stay with me for the rest of my life. In your case 250, the reality may be that she never finds enough rocks. She surely acknowledges on some level that you care - if she happens to find a solution over the coming years I am sure she will come to appreciate your efforts all the more.
"Moving on" is hard, and the most difficult step is to recognise when something is not going to be. Courage my friend, and be aware that there are those out here who wish you well.
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Davros was right - just ask JD
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