[Attalus]

Lol, I'll tell Gal how lucky she is, though I don't think she'll be very impressed. I'll also tell her that you miss her, but I don't think she'll be coming back to GD unless something here really interests her. To answer your questions, alcohol is no excuse for anything. If at all, it should be another reason to apologise for and regret one's behavior. Also, though I know I sound old-fashioned, you girls should be prudent when you are on the town. Go in groups, don't drink too much, even if you think that you are with someone you can trust. As to what can be constituted as leading a man on, I should say, giving notes, making sexual suggestions, physical contact (stroking, etc), should be considered definite signs that a girl is ready to party. Nothing less. If a man is unsure, he should ask.