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Originally posted by Dundee Slaytern:
Hmmmm... the poll is not about focusing on the abstainment from sex, but the decision to not take a life partner. Yes, no sex is also part of the deal, but it is not the main point.
I have been ragged upon when people find out about my chosen path( yes, it is me in question, as if you did not know that already  ), and I was curious to know whether everybody thinks I am crazy.
And even if I am really crazy, I will still stick to what I have decided to do a long time ago, because I have my reasons. Just curious.
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FWIW, I voted before seeing this post, Dundee, and my vote was that you/the person should follow your own path.
I was celibate for many years and decided that might just be my lot in life for many reasons. It happens that I've met someone, fallen in love and we're engaged now but I can't say that I would change anything I've done in my life regarding the choices I made before we met. You must do what is right for YOU and not what anyone else says is right.
I have a lot of respect for you and your decision. It's not an easy one but if you think it is what you should do, nobody else knows you better than you do! And it took courage to post this. [img]smile.gif[/img]