rthemis, I don't know as we could, either, but some folks sure try to! LOL Still, a good discussion of it's merits and pitfalls isn't so bad...and Avvy needed some input, he's pining over there! [img]smile.gif[/img]
Rudy, thanks! I found this one very interesting and very useful! I have a few more, maybe I can post them if anyone is interested. I think one of them is on 'relationship survival tips' and the other is a short list of things to help a marriage survive. And thanks again. I'm pretty happy! Nacht is coming this way in less than two months.. sigh..swoon.. oops.. I have a million things to do before that!