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Old 05-07-2002, 11:13 PM   #17
Black Knight
Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice
 

Join Date: March 1, 2001
Location: Delaware OH USA
Age: 47
Posts: 3,168
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Originally posted by Chewbacca:
It actually takes less energy to just listen, which is what most girls want , than it does to talk. If your seriuos about this gal, then learn to listen.

My significant other can chatter for what seems like days, but it makes her happy that I listen so I do my best, except when I'm in a real critical part of a game and all my attention is on my monitor and she wants to discuss the price of fish overseas, well thats when I yell "I'm busy, leave a message!"
Not sure if I'd agree with that last part, but for the most part, Chewy's right. Learn the skill of automatic recall - listening only slightly and teach your mind to capture the main points for you to recall if she says that dreaded statement "Are you even listening to me?"

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BK
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