[Reeka]

I see your point, Pauly, and as I said I did not think it was done maliciously but perhaps thoughtlessly. I can see your reasoning, but still feel that it will make others feel bad (I mean I think the evidence speaks for itself in the number of people who feel they must justify why they cannot send money.) And as far as people wanting Dan to know that they are sending money or not, what is wrong with an e-mail or a PM? I suppose it may cause someone to not give (and perhaps if someone has not been around long enough to know that Z is not a scam artist they should not be giving anyway.) I still feel that at the end of the day it causes more harm than good. I mean think about it, if it didn't bother people why would they make posts trying to in their opinion make themselves not look bad for not sending money. And as for the posts made giving amounts, (not that you have ever done this), I feel there is no excuse for that.

You are a good person, Pauly (you know that I know that--you have helped me out on occasions.) We will just have to agree to disagree on this one.