Downunda,
No offense taken! Seriously...they are tops!
If I tried to take time to type it all out, we'd all get old waiting on me to be finished!
I am a little upset right now...my evil mother played on my evil but emotionally fragile sister to get to me...well I had to answer to the evil but emotionally fragile sister and tell her that our mother sux and she knows it...that I don't play those games and I don't want to be involved in them anymore, I am just not in the best health right now and I've NEVER been in the mood!
I hurt her feelings I am sure.
But from the questions she was asking me (stuff only me and my mom have talked about recently) and the remarks she made about her and my mom having talked earlier, I was able to see our mom's manipulation in her e-mail to me...(Mom e-mailed me last week and I was nice to her even though she had intended to hurt me with the things she said).
If my mom wants info she can call me directly for it. Will she? No.
Do I care? No, I've known the woman long enough to have learned how to let her evil fly by's leave me unharmed and unscarred, but now she brought in my sister and my sister plays her game when she gets something out of it...mommy's love. Who needs a mother's love when it is built on hating other people?
Hurting me right now is the prize up for grabs but killing me through an e-mail of all things just ain't gonna happen so I told her "I Love You and I hate to feel like I need to sever my ties with you, but I
never hear from you and now that I do, it is because mom sent you to drill me for info. It makes me feel like sh*t and I'd rather not be exposed to such heartache, I am in bad enough shape as it is."
Which I am...I don't need it I never did and I never will.
I just feel bad for my sister now because she is (pardon me for saying it) stupid enough to take it all personally and damn our mom, she'll make my sister feel even worse about herself and me when the two of them talk again.
I don't even want to answer their e-mails anymore. I am not going to sugar coat the truth and pretend everything is OK when it will never be.
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if you ever let those backstabbing, gossiping, just downright evil people into your life again then you will never be allowed back to IW
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LOL This is a good one!
Seriously, I am going to print out all the great replies in a pretty and colorful font and hang them on my wall as a reminder.
I have a wonderful family here in Texas who have adopted me as one of their own...they are good people...people of my own heart...I am happy where I am and without my "relatives" chiming in once or twice a year to cause me misery. I can't let it go on any longer.
Argh edited for typos and to add things left unsaid that left this post as unclear as it still is lol
[ 04-23-2002, 11:46 PM: Message edited by: Moni ]