Tiamat, you may just not realize that in a relationsip that's solid, two people care for each other, support each other and DO put the other first on many levels.
It's not about buying her all sorts of presents and of course you wouldn't starve yourself.. what good is a partner who's debiltated and in poverty? She'd not want that at all! If she did, she's not a good partner!
I think you'll learn in time that sharing and being supportive of one another can be the most rewarding part of your relationship and it makes life so much sweeter to have someone to share things with!
Cloudy
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"Don't take life for granted." Animal (may he rest in peace)
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