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You know, I don't think I have a list of what I'm looking for in someone. My experience is that no-one fits the preset mould. Our presets we expect people to fit into can be pretty tough.
Also, by making preset decisions about what I like, I can end up repeatedly choosing "wrong people" for me. Frighteningly, making the same mistakes.
Now I think I'm looking at myself, and how I feel. What she does or doesn't bring out in me.
Can I be myself?
Can I express with her?
Can she be herself with me?
Do I know her?
Is the ride enjoyable together or difficult?
Do I feel supportive AND supported?
Do I enjoy her company?
Does she enthrall me?
Do I enthrall her?
Do I miss her when she's gone?
Is there/could there be respect, trust, care and love between us?
[ 04-18-2002, 09:18 AM: Message edited by: Yorick ]
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