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Originally posted by Leonis:
Well said [img]smile.gif[/img]
I've been with my wife 10 years too (married 6) and I've found that deep and intimate knowledge (talking mentally here) of someone who you also love unconditionally increases and expands their beauty in so many ways. I was physically attracted to my wife before we went out, but we connected intellectually and spiritual first, became friends and then started going out.
An older friend of mine told me when I was 15, "marry your best friend", and it has proven itself time and time again.
Good looks won't make arguing with her any easier, they mean nothing if she cheats on you, a beautiful enemy is still an enemy and everyone gets old...
Basing your criteria how well you get on, respect, passion for life, mutual understanding and interests and so on will always win out and no matter what she looks like she will always be the most beautiful woman you know!
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Yes, yes, but the fact remains that she is a very sexy and attractive woman. And that you are a lucky man. [img]smile.gif[/img]
I find the initial attraction of a woman is in her eyes. The window to the soul. Much can be learned about her from that window.
I agree about how attraction changes depending on the growth in the relationship. I've experienced it both ways. Had someone who was incredibly, incredibly beautiful seem ugly to me at the end of the relationship. Conversely I've found women to become more beautiful as I've got to know them.
The inner beauty IS where it's at. It starts inside and surges out from there.
Girls, let no one tell you otherwise.