ah what we have here is a simple problem,
Selfishness vs Stubborness, and a need for understanding...
Your feelings have differint issues and differint goals, thought in your hearts you seek the same goal. In turn- One side asks for something to serve himself and the other side is too stubborn to change their decision... thats quite understandable, but it's not like you just have to STOP TALKING to her, Infact I recomend you stay in contact until she, herself, feels that she is mature enough if this really is
the one for you...
eh but what do i know, i'm just a guy who's studying for a bachelors in Female Psychology and Computer Science...
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