As long as both parties are willing to work out a relationship, individual's healthiness or the lack of can be properly dealt with.
there is no standard definition to what is healthy. my measurement is as good as yours, however there are some commen things to be accepted as "healthy". just exercise your commen sense, no need to put it into words. (and I cannot)
my point is already made. a less healthy person can have a healthy relationship. but the first that this less healthy individual must be willing to explore and accept his/her own shadows. to deny that means self destruction as a whole. no relationship is possible until one stops denying.
[ 04-11-2002, 09:49 PM: Message edited by: TheThing ]
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