I have been married for going on 9 years this May and I have never had the urge to cheat on my wife at all. We even spent a year apart because of my job and her school and yet I still remained faithful. Why? Because I took our marrige vows and plan to stick to them. If I don't them I am a liar. I stood up infront of my family and hers and swore that I would stay faithful and I will. If you can't take the vows and keep them then be honest and don't take them. I think most of these affairs start because people are self centered and don't think about the other person. I have worked with people who use the "It's the nature of man to have multiple partners" idea to ease their mind when involved in an affair but it comes down to this. If you are self centered and a liar don't take the vows. It has nothing to do with what someone did 10,000,000 years ago. It has to do with what you decide today.
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