I'm only a lurker anymore but I felt I should comment on this thread.
The response has a good idea, but a number of holes in their theory. A partner will still cheat on you even if you do fullfill all phsyical and emotional needs for them. Some people are just apathetic, some don't think they'll get caught, and some don't even view it as wrong. There are a lot of reasons for someone to cheat and a good majority of them are not to be blamed on your partner. I mean even if you are getting urges to cheat on your signifigant other, that should be a clue to either let them know and try to work something out, or break up. There's no excuse for telling somone how much you care about them and all that, and then turning around and cheating on them. Having physical desires for someone else is natural and healthy, but acting on them and violating the trust between you and your partner is completely unacceptable no matter what the reasons.
[ 03-04-2002: Message edited by: AzRaeL StoRmBlaDe ]
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