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Originally posted by Cloudbringer:
[img]graemlins/blush.gif[/img] err.. Ok, well, in the interests of honesty here... yes, we did. But for the sake of showing I put my money where my mouth is, I'll add that we have talked pretty seriously about the future and it is a committed relationship. [img]graemlins/blush.gif[/img] 
We already knew that [img]smile.gif[/img] I will admit that at one point in my life sex was umm...well just a fun thing to do with whoever you were with, but as I grew up and had children I have changed my stance a bit. As I said earlier I think two people should know EVERY part of their intended mate before comitting to a long term relationship. It certainly wouldnt be fair to find out after the fact that one person had a SERIOUS need/desire for S&M and the other had a SERIOUS aversion to it. (I use that only as an example..for myself Im allergic to pain...pain hurts!).