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Old 02-01-2002, 08:59 PM   #25
MagiK
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Originally posted by Larry_OHF:

Whether religious, not religious, or anti-religious...think about how special it would be to a woman to know that her husband had never been with another woman. She would then not have the question in her mind..."I wonder if his previous girlfriend was better in bed than I..., or other things. I am sure I got a chuckle out of you on that remark...but think on it. To know that my wife Karen has never had intimate relations with any other man makes me feel ...better when I am with her. If she had been with another before me...well, I could not love her the same way. I mean...to know that another had held her passionately before I did would feel kinda ...icky...or something



Not disagreeing with you larry but I have had several women friends who were actually glad that their spouses had had some experience and "Knew What they were doing" I really think it is not a bad thing that at least one person knows what they are doing [img]smile.gif[/img] I personally prefer someone who I do not need to train from the gound up....but then again Im not re-married yet....but in my first marriage I was never put out that my spouse had far more partners uhhh under her belt so to speak..and in fact I was very grateful on several occasions [img]smile.gif[/img] Just my 2 cents....I am totaly pro-fidelity after marriage.