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Originally posted by Sir ReGiN:
Morguerat: Nice to hear about someone who's gone throught the same thing [img]smile.gif[/img]
But still, I think sneaking out when she's coming over feels a little..I don't know, ridicoulous..
Even though that's what I want, to just run away..
But you think I should talk to him?
Do you have any ideas how to put it? That's also a big question [img]smile.gif[/img]
[ 01-16-2002: Message edited by: Sir ReGiN ]
lol, thanx, it's just too bad someone else has to go through it too, yeah it is kinda ridiculous, but sometimes ignorance really is bliss.
If you value him as a friend I do think you should talk to him, it's frighteningly easy to build resentment in a situation like this, and it is extremely stressfull.
I spent some 96 hours awake when it happened the first time, I don't know your friend so I don't know how to go about bringing it up. I'm not that great at speaking to people in the first place, especially about how I feel, but just be honest, you really can't ask him not to, after telling him it was ok, it would be making him choose between friends, something that very few friendships can take, the only way it really got resolved with me was that I got promoted and moved into a different barracks room, so I have no useful advice for you here either.
Be honest and hope for the best.
good luck [img]smile.gif[/img]