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Old 01-16-2002, 01:11 PM   #1
Sir ReGiN
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Join Date: August 11, 2001
Location: The land of blonde virgins
Age: 43
Posts: 2,563
I need guidance [img]smile.gif[/img]
This is the situation..
I recently had a very tough break-up with a girl I was (and still is) very much in love with..
But she had an affair with some guy I didn't know..
Of course I felt very angry about it, how could she do this to me?
But I loved that girl so much, that I was prepared to ignore that that had ever happened..
So we talked and talked, and I talked to many other people, but in the end, we decided it would be better to brake up..
So I accepted it, and moved on, though it was very hard..
This all happened several months ago, and I hadn't thought about it much, until a few days ago..when one of my room-mates tell me he wants to have a talk with me..
He told me he had started dating this same girl (her name is Elsa), apparently they had met at some mutual friends party, and that it was pretty serious..
He asked me if it was all right with me..
I said, Sure!, why wouldn't it? I was over her anyway..
But I'm not..I realized I still love her, and having her in my life once again (which is un-avoidable, since I and the guy, share the same apartement) is going to be very awkward..
But I can't forbid him from seeing her, of course..
But he is a my friend, and I feel like I wanna tell him how I feel..but I'm not sure how..
Now we're not best friends..I don't feel that I can talk to him about *anything*, and If he gets mad, it will probarbly get very tense..
So you see, I don't know wether I should talk to him or not, and if I do, what the hell am I gonna say..
Thanks for any of your thoughts [img]smile.gif[/img]
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