well my advice: to meet him first.
nothing can beat the human touch... believe me. you just have to meet him... HAVE TO. yes trust is a VERY important part, you have to have your guts at ease when around him, not speculating anything or doubting him of anything (unless your gut keeps on telling you he's ugly for example [img]smile.gif[/img] ) try to hang him somewhat, make moves that will test his mettle and he will not discover of it, and that it would seem natural and all that... be with him, chat, mail, whatever, and you will just... know
