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Hey there, I have to concur with what everyone else has said here.
Meet him in a public place that you are comfortable in[home ground]
and be cautious not paranoid. Dating is a real pain in the arse and sometimes makes you wonder if it is even worth it. Most important alway's be yourself and dont pull any punches, in other word's be strait forward. If this guy is the shy type he should be comforted by
your action's, if he is a different person he will start to act negativly to a positive person. The best part about meeting in an open area is that you can tell what kind of person he will be, aloof or interested. If he is aloof the date will end rather abruptly if he is interested in you for what you are then he will maintain some form of contact throuhout the date. Compliment's, little touhes, tension breakers, and dont let him be the only one leading the conversation, make him think about thing's familiar to you and see how he answer's.
Well sorry if this seem's a little confusing, to many thought's boucing in the air space between my ear's.
Good luck, be safe and have fun
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