Cloudbringer/Stormqueen
I shall never convert to spam (it's name implies that it is "special ham"!
Thank you for remembering my 'problems'. We (my wife and I) are taking it very slow...one day at a time until things start falling into place. It seems like she genuinly(sp) wants this to work, so I will give her the benefit of the doubt, but am trying not to get my hopes up too high

I actually went to my therapist and told her about posting here and she said it was great....as it acted kind of like 'group therapy' So there you go....you guys are my group therapists (Hi, My name is Moridin and I have serious issues...)
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