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Originally posted by 250:
what I wish to know is, how did you walk out that shadow? (you dont have to share everything, just a basic idea is fine)
thank you very much
**hugs** (I need one)
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You are very welcome.
I saw the light when I studied Psychology and learned how to separate problems that did not belong to me from those that did. I had carried around a lot of self-loathing because of my mother and sister's hatred of me all my life.
Growing up for me, meant recognizing their problems and not hanging on to them as if they were mine. Then I worked on the areas where I had failed myself by thinking I was the loser they had led me to believe I was.
It will take time and patience for the both of you if you are going to stick with her while she tries. If she wants to move forward, she can, but she has to apply the positive and
absolutelylet go of the negative.
I am so sorry for cutting out on you right now and heading for bed, but I do have a really big test in the morning and I need to sneak in some morning time to try to be prepared. (I have a Math class at 7:00 too ugh lol).
I'll keep in touch with you and keep praying and hoping for the best.
*hugs*
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