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Originally posted by Moni:
Jorath,
Your ex sounds like she has a major self-esteem problem.
That's her problem not yours but anyway, to all of you thinking that girls really want bad boys, let me say that having married a couple of them, there can be found good in everyone. Now a man who will raise his hand at me is not going to get a second chance but the tough guys do have hearts and feelings just like the rest of us.
If they don't have their sh*t together, they get thrown back or at least pointed in the right direction for future reference.
Good guys can be just as psychotic as the ones who portray the bad boy image if not worse!
I've dealt with more mind games and stalker kind of crap from "geeks" than I have from any biker-type's I ever dated!
Bottom line is have your own sh*t together and when you hook up with someone else that does too, life is beautiful. Until then, realize that a lot of people have personal problems and if you can't be friend enough to them to try to help them out, at least say a prayer for them or send good energy their way.
*hugs*
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This is by far the best response I think I found in this thread. I never meant for it to be about stereotypes, my point was that there are guys out there rhat beat up women, something that I believe is about as low you can go. I called them jerks because they beat up their women. I know not all guys beat their women, and guy does not have to just look tough so I'll go "look at that guy, he looks like he beats up his wife".
And believe me Moni, if my ex-girlfriend would want anything to do with me (which I don't think she does), I'd do anything to help her out.
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[This message has been edited by Jorath Calar (edited 10-31-2001).]