Jorath,
Your ex sounds like she has a major self-esteem problem.
That's her problem not yours but anyway, to all of you thinking that girls really want bad boys, let me say that having married a couple of them, there can be found good in everyone. Now a man who will raise his hand at me is not going to get a second chance but the tough guys do have hearts and feelings just like the rest of us.
If they don't have their sh*t together, they get thrown back or at least pointed in the right direction for future reference.
Good guys can be just as psychotic as the ones who portray the bad boy image if not worse!
I've dealt with more mind games and stalker kind of crap from "geeks" than I have from any biker-type's I ever dated!
Bottom line is have your own sh*t together and when you hook up with someone else that does too, life is beautiful. Until then, realize that a lot of people have personal problems and if you can't be friend enough to them to try to help them out, at least say a prayer for them or send good energy their way.
*hugs*
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