Now, what you need to do is beat the **** out of the other HE and remove him from the equation... No, just kiding, don't ever do that (I guess I shouldn't be kidding about it, but I need to relax. I'm sorry).
Tell her what you feel like and let the river run it's course from there. You'll know right away if it's indeed a match or not.
Good luck
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I'm the Wanderer without a clan... I bring justice without favorism. Though you may not agree with it, my judgement is final... and inconsequential