It was in this place and some of the ORIGINAL telnet talkers I learned to be more relaxed with people, I would never have dared to let the softer side of me out in the real world, untill I realized everyone had one

(that came from spending too many years in very nast situations) The net is just another tool, how we use it decides wether it is a good thing or a bad thing. I would also state, that anything can be obssessed over, and that can be a bad thing.
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Disintigration is easy, If you really want to impress me, ReIntegrate it.