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Originally posted by Lifetime: Actually I find that when it comes to relationships, Ignorance is Bliss You really cant be touchy-feelly in deep all the time. It becomes a chore, you become unhappy and insecure and thinking too much tends to become a really bad habit. Does uncaring cause failure in communication? Yes. If you don't bother to care, you'll never know. Of course, if you know whats good for you, you wouldnt care to know everything. Does failure in communication cause uncaring? If you dont talk, you'll never find out. What causes failure in communication in the first place? Its a chicken-egg situation. Generally though, lack of communication tends to be a lack of expression rather than a lack of emotion.

good, and one thing I'd like to add

I dont believe emotions can find ways to express yourself, until one purposefully guide the flow. a failure in communication is likely to cause more a lot damage, because people become hurtful.

when you dont care, you can take almost any shit from anyone. but when you care, that is when it starts to hurt


[This message has been edited by 250 (edited 10-09-2001).]