I am not having any problem, so don't get any idea
it is just I've been reading comments on "American Beauty"
just this idea came up to me:
Does uncaring causes failure in communication?
or Does failure in communication causes uncaring?
or both holds true? so which is mroe important? which generates which? which is a more important factor of a successful relationship? communication? or caring?
supposedly, one can exist without another, does that still make a relationship success?
I've got my own opinions on this one, just like to see everyone's

it is amazing how people can have different views on even the most "obvious" answers