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Originally posted by 250:
no she is not... but someone got to make a start, correct?
I am willing to take the relationship one step futhur, but I am just ... you know, fear...
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Only you can judge when the time is right to take it further. You know her. Presumably you are learning to "read" her signals?
If you weigh up the losses risked against the possible gains, and the gains outweigh the loss, go for it. You are right that someone needs to start. Being mindful of the balance of disclosure is important though. You don't want the situation where one is repeatedly pouring their heart out and the other isn't at all. It's unbalanced.
You do have to start somewhere though.
Hope this is grist for the mill. The choice is yours alone. Pray about it perhaps. I would pray in this sort of situation. But then I pray in most situations.....
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I am the walrus!.... er, no hang on....
A fair dinkum laughing Hyena!
[This message has been edited by Yorick (edited 10-09-2001).]