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Originally posted by 250:
"If I had a child, and he died..."
well, I never had a child, and I never known what it is like to have one, what does that mean? so you are saying I will not make positive choices? well, why don't you assume I will make one? you are just choosing the side which favors your argument
having a child is NOT WHO I AM, it is NOT part of my experience. how can you base an argument on that?
I would say I will make positive chocies, you would say I will not, so what?
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He isn't saying you won't make positive choices, you're misreading.
You accuse him of bringing something into the argument which isn't true - the hypothesis about you losing a child is invalid, as you don't have one. I agree. However, you are doing precisely the same by making statements about the position of the mother of the child. Like you so rightly said, you don't have a child, you can't play the what if game because it isn't based on truth. Why then, do you keep mentioning examples of things you haven't experienced yourself? Following your own line of thought, such examples are meaningless as you can't know what they entail without experiencing them yourself.
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