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Old 10-06-2001, 12:48 PM   #45
Melusine
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Join Date: January 8, 2001
Location: Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Age: 45
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Quote:
Originally posted by 250:
again, you are playing the "what if" game

so how can a child shrug off "abuse" ?
is it fair? no

but i am not discussion "fairness" here
when this child grow up, she probally view this world as a angerous place, feeling extremely insecure, will not trust in oppositte gender memebers, or not have a healthy relationship, or experiencing social difficulties

either way, she is hold on to the past, she IS letting the past continuely dominate her life. she has been abused, and she IS still being abused, and she WILL be abused if she does not acknowledge the problem, face the brutal truth, hurtful past

got my meaning?

all those she can do to make changes, is her CHOICE
No, IMO it's not, because has it occurred to you that there are things on this world that are just too bad to deal with for anybody, no matter how hard you try?



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