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Originally posted by Lord Shield:
and don't forget that "who YOU are" depends entirely on your upbringing/social life/background
If that was hell, then the choice is hardly a choice? how can a child just shrug off abuse for instance?
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again, you are playing the "what if" game
so how can a child shrug off "abuse" ?
is it fair? no
but i am not discussion "fairness" here
when this child grow up, she probally view this world as a angerous place, feeling extremely insecure, will not trust in oppositte gender memebers, or not have a healthy relationship, or experiencing social difficulties
either way, she is hold on to the past, she IS letting the past continuely dominate her life. she has been abused, and she IS still being abused, and she WILL be abused if she does not acknowledge the problem, face the brutal truth, hurtful past
got my meaning?
all those she can do to make changes, is her CHOICE