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Originally posted by 250:
DO NOT play the "what if" game, people. if you want to play, then play it to the end.
this person can choose to react to the accident in a CONSTRUCTIVE way, rather than feeling sorry and pitiful for himself
if you happen to lose your child in a car accident by drunk driver. I am going to tell you, it is a bad thing, it is HORRIBLE.
but even in this situation, there are examples to create value from disaster
Mothers Against Drunk Drivers (MADD) is a wonderful organization and a perfect example of how parents who have suffered the loss of injury of a child at the hands of an irresponsible element of scoiety have chosen, through social action, to create meaning out of that suffering.
I am not saying "their child's death worth" I am just saying that reaction was a CHOICE
what more examples can you give? who would stand up and say "My life is not the result of my choices" ?
and people, for one last time, if you want to play the "what if" game, play it till the end
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You know, you sound to me as someone who maybe hasn't had enough experience in life to make these kinds of judgements, in other words: naive. Try to see things from a different viewpoint for once. How can you talk about a mother losing a child as if you have the slightest clue what that means?
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who did I hurt?
I simply slammed truth on thme
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I didn't say you hurt anybody, where did you read that? I said you made no sense to me, which you didn't.
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