If go into a deadly palce of Ayhkatla it works too. Like the tombs, or the sewers.
Also, don't despair, soem Harpers will coemin waves and attack you, and she'll leave a note saying not to come after her. Do it anyway, and she'll say 'I'd kill you if I wasn't so happy to see you !!
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Anyway, be nice, and just play along with what ever she throws at you, and soon you'll fidn yuor self deep within the love!!