Awww, 250 your English is just fine!

Sometimes it is me, and I don't understand. No biggie, as all I have to do is ask you to rephrase, and you have done so, and I understand now!
You said:
the flaw is not a flaw unless it can POTENTIALLY cause impact. so if a spirit is never born, its flaw will never inflict any damage, right? of course, to let the spirits learn and grow makes more sense, because that would be just like God himself, and that sounds more like God's way
Yes 250, and if all this is already "pre-planned", then actually people's flaws will help other people's flaws, if that makes sense. For example (and this is off the top of my head, so a really lame-O example, could think of better, but it's getting late and I'm tired, so this is all I got atm: Say Guy#1 flaw is being hurried, and not taking time out to notice things; say Gal#2 is lazy and slow, notices all, but never gets anywhere. Both have flaws, but together, they may learn from eachother, and thus fix their flaws.
You said: same with how we human came to exist. it was just one sparkle of fire that ignited a tremendous explosive creation billions of trillions years ago, then, BOOM, we came to live. that is hardly a coincidence, it is the inevitable. and it does not require a God to make it happen
Well, yes, there is a scientific, biological if you will, history of our planet's creation. But what keeps our heart beating? What keeps US alive? What makes us all different? Is it just a coincidence or what that our planet has so many things upon it that are usable and helpful to us humans. And is love a biological thing only? Dunno, there just seems to be "thought" put into the making of this planet we live on, not just random biological sporadic life.
Again, 250 my friend, you're talking to someone who has strong faith, and just feels it, always have, and I have a history of my prayers being answered in huge ways.
I must say though that I find your statements quite interesting, things I never even thought of before LOL. Even if I have another view, doesn't mean I don't respect what you think as well
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