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Originally posted by Moridin:
My problem is this: Should I tell her current bf (whom I have met a couple of times, and think is a pretty good guy), if she starts seeing someone else even if it will most certainly cost me my freindship with her?
I feel like deep down I should tell him b/c he does not deserve to be hurt, but on the other hand should I just keep out of it, as it is not really my business?
And do I really want to be friends with someone that would do this to another person?
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Hmmm difficult, but my responses would be:-
1) Should I tell her current bf? - No
2) Do I really want to be friends with someone that would do this to another person? Your call.
I think it basically boils down to making a choice that will impact on yourself only as in 2) as opposed to taking action that will affect others apart from yourself. Before you contemplate doing anything about 1) you had better be 100% sure you are doing the right thing, for the right reasons after carefully weighing up all the available facts and be prepared for any and all consequences....
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Regards
Mouse
[This message has been edited by Mouse (edited 08-27-2001).]