08-23-2001, 09:40 PM
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Join Date: March 1, 2001
Location: Midlands, South Carolina
Age: 49
Posts: 14,759
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Originally posted by bilqis:
How old is your baby? Two months? Three? It takes six months to a year for a woman's body to recover from the trauma of birth. Plus a new baby takes TONS of energy leaving little room for feelings of desire. Your sex life is going to be very different from "Before Babies" for some time to come. I do make one strong suggestion regarding this issue tho ... it is still possible to arouse her ardor if you are willing to go the 'extra mile'. Romance her Larry... help to draw her thoughts & emotions from baby-frenzy by doing all the considerate little things she loves... again & again. It will take time, but it will work.
Larry, you & your wife are very lucky in each other and your relationship. Please cherish that, and trust in that. Open communication is great. Not playing games is great. Keep up the good work! (and yes, relationships are WORK!  )
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Wonderful post!!! Thanks! 
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[This message has been edited by Larry_OHF (edited 08-23-2001).]
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