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Originally posted by Larry_OHF:
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Maybe I owe more explanation than this. I try to convince my wife that I am honest with her, and sometimes I like to pull jokes on her, just to see if I can get her jealous. For example, I know that she is going to catch me looking at that girl in the mall as we go walking by.
I do not want to look without an explantation, that I feel I owe her, she being my wife and all, so I say..."Look at her! She so fine, you're probably having lesbian thoughts right now, aren't you?" 
Or maybe, "Hey! I like the way that girl does her hair...what do you think of it?"
Sometimes, I may see a guy who has stud written all over him, and I will say..."Karen! That guy is checking you out! You want him, don't you? "
Karen seems to enjoy the fact that I am so open with her, and that I let her know what I am thinking, even if it is disguised as a joke.
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Ye gods! If I were Karen I'd smack you round the head for saying stuff like that, Larry. It is SO insulting! I doubt if she really enjoys such comments, even if you feel you are being 'honest'.
You feel guilty for finding other women attractive, and are trying to reduce your guilty feelings by wishing the same on her. Don't try to put onto her your own perception of things, it is not fair. Just take her word for it that she is not interested, and keep your 'guilt' to yourself. Because there is NO NEED to feel guilty if you never touch!
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