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Originally posted by Larry_OHF:
[Sorry  You guessed wrong! I have told my wife who I find attractive, and why..."I like her hair, pretty eyes, she is just a cute girl...etc. I have told her that I would never hide anything from her, and so I have not. She is not sharing. She knows that I find other girls attractive, and she understands why. She even agrees with me most of the time, as to let me know that my taste is good.
There is personal reason why I would ask the question as to why she will not let me know who she likes. This is why I asked it, not for your sake, or any other, but for me.
Sorry I did not include that in the first part. I just did not think anyone would challenge my reasoning for asking this. Thanks for reminding me to update my info., though.
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Then I take it that you have significant reason to believe that there is someone else whom she is interested in? There's no way I can determine her rationale on the basis of what you have said, but a few pointers:
If she is being coy or remote with you when she never has done so before regarding openness or if you are picking up other things from her that something may be wrong, then yes, I would say that there would be a cause for concern.
However, in the absence of the above symptoms, I still wouldn't worry about it. Based on your posts, Larry, you sound like a terrific husband. It sounds as if you're going through a bit of stress right now (both of you) and need to relax your attention on the day-to-day problems and concentrate on each other and what both of you need. I have a feeling that you are doing this; based on what you've said here, I don't know if she is or not. Keep trying, though. The important thing between you guys right now is communication.
I was going to say a little more, but my wife just called me at work and her car battery is dead...I have to run. Don't sweat it too badly, Larry...just keep working with her. I wish you all the best, buddy.
Cheers,
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