I think it's a very interesting topic, Bilqis.
I have some friends, met online, whom I've met in rl and still talk to whenever I can. No it's not the same as having them right nearby, but now that we've met in person (numerous times) I don't think of them as 'cyber friends' anymore. They are solid rl acquaintances.
I also feel that several of my current 'online' friends are likely to be people I'm in touch with for years if not forever. And yes, some will drift away but that's the nature of 'real life' too!
I tend to agree with Sazerac that after a month or so you can get a good idea what the person is like. I would have to say that it takes much longer, at least for me, to form any 'lasting bonds' of friendship. I have done it with a few people here. I won't name names, you know who you are
. These are people I 'connect with' and who keep in touch as much as they can in posts/email/chat and real snail mail. People who genuinely care how I'm doing and for whom I spare a thought or a prayer fairly often. So yes, I call them friends. I think of all the other online people I know and communicate regularly with as good acquaintances. This place is brimming with nice people!
Since you did mention me in your post, dearest Javi, I just want to say that if I ever make it to your half of the world, rest assured, I'll visit you, no doubt about it!
Cloudy
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