Just wanted to stick my oar in, as I too was over at TeamBG a bit during downtime here, not posting, but just reading - and I saw in full all the stuff with FW Elesion and what happened to 250 from start to finish.
I was so angry about it all that I went and posted on Stealthy's site (as 250 is a decent bloke and didn't deserve that cr*p) so I feel that maybe I had a small role to play in getting others worked up by moaning about it myself.
I only posted twice in the ensuing row at TeamBG, but I really don't want a war with them. There are probably some good people there, but not much diplomacy!
I wouldn't say to anyone not to visit the site, or anything like that, just bear in mind that Ken and some of his colleagues are less easy-going than we are used to, so don't post anything there that may cause upset - be tolerant of the way they run their forum, even if it's not really to your liking, and don't rise to any flaming - if nothing else it will prove that you are big enough to keep your cool. Bear in mind also that we don't want any retaliation here!
I can recommend The Elysium (link posted by Father Bronze earlier I think). It is not Ironworks
but it is a friendly place, much quieter than here so don't expect instant replies - the people there are quite accommodating though.
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