first of all, search for the familiar question and my member number at the same time. recently i posted the entire list, with data, of familiars, right off the scroll, but i'm too lazy to repeat it here.
for scrolls, anyone with 9 intelligence can cast green protection or green cursed scrolls out of their quick item slots. Anyone who can cast mage spells and has 9 intelligence can cast mage spells out of slots. anyone with 9 intelligence and can cast cleric spells can cast cleric scrolls out of slots. some scrolls can be used by anyone, regardless of all stuff. (restoration, stoneshape scroll)
(btw, when you pick up a usable item, it highlights everywhere it can go. just move stuff around between party members until something new lights up.
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