My charisma is 14, or 15, maybe 16 (can't remember [img]tongue.gif[/img] ) so it can't be a charisma thing since yours is so high. [img]smile.gif[/img] Maybe it's just the time and the place... Maybe you need to do a certain quest before... I really don't know. Try to find a page concerning romances in SoA, maybe it'll say more. [img]smile.gif[/img]
Anomen left my party too, after the messenger came. But I found him in the house of that trademan, and I convinced him not to kill him and to come back. So it all turned out okay.